for free & sacred sexuality

Let's keep in touch. Intimacy shouldn't be a source of anxiety, frustration or disconnection.
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Can't have the hard conversations about intimacy?

Does the thought of intimacy or initiation make you anxious?​

Are you frustrated with not enough progress in your vaginismus journey?

If so, let's work together!


I'm Sadé Jovanne (shah-day joh-vah-nee), and I'm wild about spiritual sexuality. If you were part of the Purity Culture movement, you understand how deeply sex and shame have been intertwined. I hate that. Let's change that.

The solution starts with your mindset. You likely have ingrained negative and limiting beliefs that are causing you stay stuck in your dating or intimate life.

As your dating coach or sex therapist, I'll challenge you to change those beliefs and the unhelpful actions playing out in your love life!

(oh, and if you feel like you need in-depth therapy to work through some deeper traumas or hurts, meet me over here!)


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Get unstuck from harmful Purity Culture messages and learn to how to do this dating thing in a way that honors you!

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For couples who need in-depth help with sex drive, vaginismus, communication, building trust after an affair, etc.

"Girl...can I just say thank you! Your course was FIRE!"

- A

"Yes! It was so encouraging/reinforcing to hear you talk about God wanting us to be sexual people. "

- K

“You’re incredible. That was awesome. Thanks so much for this. Please do this again. I’m in a wives group. I’d love to invite them to one of these.”

- E


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i'm excited to work with you and your relationship!

If you choose dating coaching, you can expect your coaching experience to be fun and eye-opening. I like to ask questions that help you consider things you've never thought of before, and stretch into a new way of enjoying intimacy.

If you choose sex therapy, you can expect a warm and welcoming environment to talk about topics that might make you feel shy - or even frustrated. I'll help you understand what problems are contributing to your intimacy issues, and together, we'll create a game plan to transform your sex life! We'll even integrate spiritually (if you'd like) to address shame-holding beliefs. Sex therapy is available online, in-person, and in intensive (two-day) formats.

Get ready to be encouraged and supported.

We're in this together now!