Q: My lady and I have been having trouble lately; I can't seem to last as long as I used to. This has never happened to me before. What should I do? A: The first thing you should know is that this is normal. The phenomenon of not performing to your usual standard can be pretty distressing though, especially when you don't know why it is happening. There is so much stigma in our culture around men discussing concerns of health - especially sexual functioning. So. What is the r