Most couples don't talk about sex - they just do it. And for those who were raised in Purity Culture or in conservative households, it can feel quite foreign to discuss what happens when the lights are off. Shameful, even. So, what do couples do when there is a legitimate issue in sexual intimacy that needs to be addressed? I'll answer the question: most couples will tip-toe around the problem. They'll find a way to compensate or get by without having to dive deep and "rock

If your wife feels that she needs to help you handle your emotions and temper tantrums (you know, like when you pout or withdraw or get irritable when it has been too long since you last had sex), then she won't feel that she is your lover; she will feel that she is a mom parenting a child. This is obviously not what you want. Sure, she may still have sex with you - but her motivation will be to appease your mood, not to actually connect and enjoy your time together.

Both men and women may feel grossed out by some of the processes and fluids that come with sex - but feel too embarrassed to share their thoughts with their partner. Let me go ahead and validate this for you: you are not the only one. So, if you find yourself afflicted with mild or severe disgust during sex, let's talk about some practical ways to address the issue. This is just the tip of the ice berg, but hopefully it can get the conversation started!

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