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How to Initiate Sex When Your Wife is Not in the Mood
If your wife feels that she needs to help you handle your emotions and temper tantrums (you know, like when you pout or withdraw or get irritable when it has been too long since you last had sex), then she won't feel that she is your lover; she will feel that she is a mom parenting a child. This is obviously not what you want. Sure, she may still have sex with you - but her motivation will be to appease your mood, not to actually connect and enjoy your time together.
Aug 264 min read


What Do I Do if Sex Feels Messy and Gross?
Both men and women may feel grossed out by some of the processes and fluids that come with sex - but feel too embarrassed to share their thoughts with their partner.
Let me go ahead and validate this for you: you are not the only one. So, if you find yourself afflicted with mild or severe disgust during sex, let's talk about some practical ways to address the issue. This is just the tip of the ice berg, but hopefully it can get the conversation started!
Apr 237 min read


Afterglow Can Make Your Sex Life Feel More Intimate
Afterglow is a way for couples to bridge the passion of sexual intimacy with the depth and connection of emotional intimacy.
Apr 234 min read


10 Ways to Stop Routine from Destroying Your Sex Life
Here's the thing: keeping sexual desire ignited with a long-term partner is different than sex with a stranger.
Apr 19, 20248 min read


What if We're Christian and Interested in Sex Toys?
Curious about toys, but uncomfortable making a random Google search?
Jul 26, 20203 min read


8 Ideas for Intimacy that Don't Go "All the Way"
Because physical intimacy doesn't always have to include intercourse
Jul 5, 20203 min read


Keeping the Love Alive Long-Distance
Hint: creativity saves relationships!
Jun 28, 20203 min read


The Power of Non-Sexual Touch
Social-isolation may mean that you are home with a partner, inviting you to confront your pre-existing intimacy issues. Here's how to do it.
Mar 25, 20202 min read


What If a Miracle Happened in Your Relationship?
If you woke up in the morning and a miracle happened, the problem was gone.... what would the day look like?
Mar 21, 20204 min read


Creating Desire - Ladies' Edition
How Can I Move My Desire for Sex into Action?
May 19, 20193 min read


Have a Make-out Session
At the beginning of a relationship, you can't keep our hands off of each other. There's this magnetism, this desire to be wrapped in each...
May 16, 20192 min read


3 FUN Kissing Games!
Ready to try something different? Kissing is an amazing way to connect with your significant other. You can communicate so much through...
Apr 26, 20193 min read


Travelling Spouse
Q: My spouse is going to be traveling for the next two weeks for work. What should I do with all of my free time? This is the longest...
Apr 6, 20192 min read

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