How to tell if you are sexually compatible if you are waiting to have sex until marriage Q: My boyfriend and I are waiting to have sex until we are married, but I am curious about our sexual compatibility. How can we know without crossing our boundaries? A: Others may disagree - especially within the therapeutic world - but I’ll give you my honest perspective. I think it is possible to get a glimpse of your sex life without having sex. It’s all in the special sauce. Ingredien